Domina Mari

Protocol

The minute our time together begins, I will begin to pry into you,
preparing for the emergence of someone new. When serving me,
you will adhere to My philosophy, and thank me after
every lesson learned.

I.
INTENTIONAL GESTURES

II.
ENDURANCE DISSOLVES EGO

III.
DEVOTION FOR EXALTATION

IV.

GROWTH BY ORDEAL

V.
OBEDIENCE AS STRUCTURE


DM+web+photos-1-2+copy.jpg
 

Creating beautiful symmetry from jagged parts, I am your architect, sculpting every untouched crevice of your body and soul. Protocol is an indispensable guide to both the seasoned player and those just beginning their journey. Read on to ensure you approach me using the proper etiquette. You wouldn’t want to embarrass yourself, would you?

Etiquette


New to the World of BDSM?


Plenty of my clients are new to BDSM. To set your mind at ease, I may answer any queries, should they be posed in a polite manner. Trust in me, you are in skilled hands. Having trained with some of the most formidible dominants in the world, I will take you on a journey you won't soon forget.

How to Reserve an Appointment


Fill out the submission request or email all pertinent information to dominamari@protonmail.com. Read both my policies and be sure to completely fill out my request form. Don’t be nervous and don't hold back.

Allow 24-48 hours for a response (Patience, I know you're shivering with anticipation).

Once your deposit is recieved, your booking will be confirmed. Be sure to message me if you have any concerns or questions in the time between your request and the actual booking date.

Presentation


I will confirm our appointment the day of via text message to make sure you're ready to go. I'll supply you with directions to my location.

When meeting in public or for an outcall, Discretion is very important. Do not ask reception for room information, I will text you my location or meet you. Once we are behind the safety of walls away from prying eyes, we can get personal.

Hygiene


I expect a certain level of care to your personal grooming. The restroom will be stocked with soft fluffy towels and a selection of toiletries will be available for use for you to freshen up. Shower, Clip your nails and be sure to brush your teeth before the beginning of the session. You are welcome to do this at home but I request that it be within 30 minutes of us meeting.

All my implements are cleaned prior to our session. I arrive to our sessions showered, clean and ready to get frisky. I always use protection and practice Risk Aware and Consensual Kink. I get tested reguarly and do not go through with a booking if I am not in good health.

If anal training and prostate play is on the agenda for our time together, I require that you properly flush and cleanse your system prior to our time together.

Tribute


Place your tribute in an unsealed envelope within clear view of me within the first 5 minutes of our time together, then excuse yourself to the restroom. If we are meeting in public, be discreet and slip the envelope into a gift bag or in between the pages of your favourite book and leave it on the table.

If you'd prefer to pay electronically, please inform me of your desire to do so at least 48 hours prior to our meeting. Payment will be due in full, prior to my arrival. I accept E-transfer and PayPal.

The Experience


Before our session

Scene details, boundaries, limits and permissions may be discussed in advance and confirmed once more before by phone or in-person prior to our appointment. In seeking such a session you agree to give yourself over to me.

Care, communication, consent are paramount to establishing healthy dynamics.

After our session

I provide aftercare to all those who bow down to my altar. Your preferred forms of aftercare are discussed prior to our session and are constantly morphing according to the level of play we engage in. You will be properly cared for and looked after.

Locations & Facilities


For your convenience, I'll send you an email or text in advance to confirm our session and supply directions to where we will be meeting. Parking is available in all locations except my Mile-End and Village Condo, as well as Hellkitty's Dungeon.

Outcalls

My outcalls take place at a luxury establishment (airbnb or hotel) of my choice. The rental fee of the outcall location will be charged to you.

Incalls

In Montreal, I offer appointments at the following locations:

Hellkitty's Dungeon
Le Triskelion
one of my (3) condos (Mile-End, Downtown or Gay Village)

Toronto appointments take place at Studio Ludus or a discreet AirBnB.

More
Questions?

 

Do you see couples and groups ?


Yes. A hedonist at heart, I take pleasure in a ménage à trois (or more), public or private group play and performances for the kinky voyeur.

I also recognize that some of my desires are not always a gentleman’s cup of tea, so I’d be delighted to invite my friends to fulfill a fantasy that would be of interest to them.

Please note that I do not switch or take on submissive roles.

Will you see people like me?


I do not discriminate against anyone who chooses to worship me. If you have any specific needs or accommodations you’d like to discuss prior to our session, indicate it in the submission form.

Can you do xyz?


Let it be noted that I am not a menu and you do not get to pick and choose the criteria of our session. Each session is bespoke to your needs and require careful planning. I prefer to focus on crafting authentic moments rather than scripted ones.

Rest assured, your interests are taken into consideration and I will work within your boundaries. To view my interests and skills, click here.

Do you take special requests?


No reasonable request for certain activities to be included will go unconsidered. Although every session is tailored to your preferences, If your fetish requires specialty equipment or falls outside of my area of expertise, it may require some time, training and additional fees to realize.

Special requests are to be made at least 1-2 weeks in advance of our appointment (see my booking policy). If you have a specific clothing, toy or furniture request that currently falls outside of the scope of my wardrobe, purchase and shipment can be made to ensure a timely arrival for our time together.

May I write a review of our session?


You will be permitted to chat openly and casually after the session through text or email. Feedback is incredibly important to me and I encourage you to use the time we have together to speak to me one on one about your experience.

I'd appreciate if you would give me a heads up before you post a review of our time together, as I may decide to feature it on my website. I prefer my reviews how I prefer my men: tasteful and discreet.

Can I make a same-day appointment?


No. Book 24 hours in advance.

How come you didn't answer my email?


I usually answer requests within 48 hours.

I don't just share my time with anyone. I look for those who’ve gone the extra mile to capture my attention, who include screening information unprompted and who respect my time and attention. I especially appreciate when you outline your interests and desires with detail.

If your email goes unanswered, it's probably because you neglected to do these things. Try sending an follow up email in a few months to see if I'll accept you.

Do you offer reduced rates?


Absolutely not. My rates are non-negotiable. To try to negotiate my tribute is a sign of grave disrespect and I am unlikely to respond further.

Domina, I'm in need of a Reference!


If we've had an appointment within the last 6 months, I'd be happy to provide you with a reference. Simply email me when you intend to list me as your reference and I'll keep an eye on my inbox.

What if I can't send a deposit?


Then we will not be meeting. Only those who prove themselves worthy of my time will be rewarded with my presence.

_DSC0332.jpg