Domina Mari

Designer turned dominatrix, I recognize that sex, like design, is used in equal measure to obtain a desired outcome. Both are communication tools used to infer meaning and symbolism.

“Everything in life is really about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” - Robert Michels

I am brutal by design. Well versed in the aesthetics of eroticism, the transformation of power dynamics is central to my work. You are a raw canvas, soon to be molded into masterpiece of my own design.

Outside of my artistic practice, I maintain a rigorous scholarly and artistic discipline in BDSM that extends beyond the dungeon. I regularly teach workshops and speak extensively on the topics of intersectional sex education, trauma healing and harm reduction. I’ve had the honour of mentoring under Madame Cléo Dubois, Mistress Minax and Selina Raven at the Academy of the SM Arts. The Academy is home to some the finest dominant players in North America.

I like to get what I want – and you’re here because the same is true of you. Perhaps you’re seeking a way forward; something different. Maybe you’re looking for a reason to let go. Whatever stirs your desires, I hold space for you to feel free in ways you’ve never felt before. I am the architect of your submission.

Skills & Interests


Foot fetish

Sissy play

Human ashtray

Topping & pegging

Erotic asphyxiation

Abductions & captivity

Needle & piercing play

Electro play

Impact play

Clothed Worship

Corporal punishment





Ritual dominance

Tentacle, alien, Sci-fi


Wax play

Humiliation & degradation

Objectification; Human furniture

Obedience training

Animal training; pet play

Medical fetishism


Rope bondage & mummification

Sensory deprivation or overload

Cross-dressing; feminization

Water torture

True Fetishism (Latex, leather & PVC)

Toilet training (nectar only)

Behaviour modification


Incest play

Voyeurism & exhibitionism


& Limits

Caviar / BS


Tickle Torture

Adult baby



Permission must be granted to touch me. I am not interested in following any pre-scripted role. I do not offer bottoming, switching services or traditional companion services. If you ask nicely, I can recommend some friends that provide more traditional companionship.